
Fat, Trans, Queer Podcast about Queer issues with an emphasis on Music, TV, media, sex, relationships, and ranting. Nonbinary transgender man with no real plan. I make playlists, I rant, I rave, I love and I hate. I also write on my blog-- daily. Check out madaboutit.blog and tune in for podcast episodes as they are available. beckywtghmai@gmail.com @madAboutItMAI https://www.facebook.com/madAboutItMAI @madAboutItMAI https://twitter.com/madAboutItMAI Instagram that I NEVER EVER USE @madAboutItMAI https://www.instagram.com/madAboutItMAI https://www.patreon.com/madaboutitpatreon Support MAI on patreon!
Episodes

Thursday May 20, 2021
Non-binary Transsexual/Ideological Hematoma
Thursday May 20, 2021
Thursday May 20, 2021
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Just ranting honestly
I have other episodes planned, I announce them
I don't have anything scripted for this episode it's just
Completely off the handle.
I am sorry I haven't been making as many episodes, I've been
More than a bit preoccupied, so keep that in mind
If you want to cancel me-- it's okay--
I have plans anyway.
https://www.netflix.com/title/80168079
That's the documentary on the sochi olympics that mentions testosterone therapy
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Saturday Apr 10, 2021
Trans Bills, Trans Kids, and the Consequences
Saturday Apr 10, 2021
Saturday Apr 10, 2021
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School House Mock? Too much? Not enough?
These bills are killing trans kids and no one seems to think about it that way.
Protect the children? Whose children? Where? What? When? Why? How?
How about let's stop selling and killing kids at the border first.
Republicans seem to focus on clickbait topics and turn them into policy, which is what they're always blaming us for. Meanwhile back at the ranch, real trans people are really suffering.
Trust trans kids. Believe trans kids. Stop doubting, stop questioning, stop harassing trans youth.
We can't protect them from everything, but these bills need to go. If any of this shit sticks on the fan, it will blow into other areas. The transphobia will snowball.

Wednesday Feb 03, 2021
Intersectionality
Wednesday Feb 03, 2021
Wednesday Feb 03, 2021
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Black history month is here, so let's talk some intersectionality.
Feminist-- Why I identify as one
Feminism is the root of most progress
Misogyny is a driving force behind discrimination of women and LGBTQAI folks
Who came up with intersectional feminism?
Kimberlé Crenshaw, a black American law professor coined the term in 1989. She's still active and working as a lawyer and civil rights advocate.
Why do we still have problems if this has been around since then...? Exactly, my friend. Exactly.
Nothing is perfect. Certainly not social movements, and definitely not this fucking podcast. I dig into some of the problems with how people use intersectionality, as well as how our government ignores it. White feminism does little to help POC thrive.
Ally is a verb, folks. Do it-- don't identify as a verb. You can't identify as an ally, same way you can't identify as a fuck.
Although it is tempting...

Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
Non-Binary Blues
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
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I've beyond had it.
If I hear one more person say they want to
"Look more Non-binary"
I'm gonna flip my lid
I've already flipped my lid ten times just this week--
There is tightness in my chest.
AIN'T NOBODY LOOK MORE OR LESS NON-BINARY THAN ANYBODY ELSE
HOW TF YOU SUPPOSED TO LOOK NB
WHY ARE YOU PUTTING SO MUCH PRESSURE ON EVERYBODY
Also some of us don't want to conform
To your ideas of gender, so
What happens to us and them!?!?
What about looking like a man makes you
Less non-binary than looking like a woman?
Vice versa?!?!?
I've been under the impression this whole time, that we are supposed to be
Fighting gender norms--Not gatekeeping them.

Thursday Aug 20, 2020
Becky Sucks at Being Trans, Excels at Hating Himself
Thursday Aug 20, 2020
Thursday Aug 20, 2020
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The poems are really paying off--what a title! All aboard the struggle bus, party edition.
Brief life updates, lots of crying. Best ignored, perhaps.
Worst trans person ever! Cancel Becky.
I will be making episodes on male sexuality, piss play, herpes, meth in the community, and more music--all after I'm finished with school in the fall. So--maybe never.
Lmao that's a nice way of teasing you, I know.
I've lost it! Tah tah

Thursday Jun 11, 2020
Thursday Jun 11, 2020
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JK Rowling Writes About Her Reasons For Speaking Out on Sex and Gender Issues
Like, actually read it?
I'm being serious--
Did you read someone else's opinion on Twitter
Before you made your own...?
Really actually read all 12 pages
Then join me for this episode.
She has become radicalized in the last few years, all because of twitter!
She quotes all of the biggest features of TERF ideology, and stirs fear over bathrooms.
She says things most all people consider to be transphobic.
She is clearly being a provocateur, but why? Perhaps maybe because she has been harrassed nonstop for her limited understanding of sex and gender?
She has had to self-educate now, and is only listening to TERF's about gender politics. She is responsible for her beliefs and her decision to quote famous TERF writers and leaders. Trans people are also responsible for how they have reacted to her twitter over the years. She has become a target for abuse, and I don't want to be associated with that sort of "activism".
Perhaps saddest of all, is that JK Rowling refers to all of her online abuse as "trans activism". I do not advocate for such speech.
SADDER THAN THAT is how many fans I have lost because I don't want to villainize her further than she has villainized herself! It is not enough for me to simply disagree with JK Rowling, I must degrade her--otherwise I'm not really a trans advocate!
What fucked up version of the twilight zone am I living in???
How am I living such a beautiful life surrounded by feminist trans people, but online--it's a different universe?
here is the gender recognition bill in scotland that Rowling is so terrified of. I don't understand her fears, as the legislation is still strict--still imposes limitations on transition. None of her fears in her treatise are verifiable.

Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
Sherry Pie Is The Best and The Worst of Season 12 Ru Paul's Drag Race and Becky Is Torn
Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
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Whoa there Joey Gugliemelli... whoa. Controversy! Drama! HBO special series Bulk!!!! Maybe a bit too good of a drag queen...? You give love a bad name, Joey! Becky is reeling, in more than one way. Only Ru Paul gets under my skin this much, I swear to hell.
I love love loved improvising my own version of talking heads naive melody. fitting.
Also evil woman!!
I missed making the podcast! more to come during the pandemic, no worries!

Sunday Mar 01, 2020
The L Word and Generation Q Review
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
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Hey Everybody! I love the L Word SOOOOO MUCH. The original series is so important to baby Becky. Generation Q is getting me really excited and I really hope they deliver more serious drama for many more seasons!!!
Where the hell is Max? More importantly, where the hell is Max's baby!?!?!
Why is Bette a cheater, and Tina isn't?!
Is Jenny really dead!?!? Was she murdered ? Was it suicide?
I think Nikki did it TBH she was so weird
My thoughts on the theme song are in the episode...
My version of the theme song is in the episode...
LMFAO there is no theme song to Generation Q because they got burned so bad they stopped having a theme song entirely.

Wednesday Jan 01, 2020
Music Series: Best of 2019 plus Christine and the Queens
Wednesday Jan 01, 2020
Wednesday Jan 01, 2020
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This music series is a mix of the hits of 2019, and then a few things I found in 2019, which is not necessarily the same as them being from 2019. Oops, oh well! It’s a killer playlist, features Lil Nas X, MUNA, King Princess, Christine and the Queens, Litany, Verzache, Kylie Minogue, Charlie XCX.
If you're wondering where Halsey, Troye Sivan, and everyone else is, it's because they are on the old playlists OR they are on an upcoming playlist. Message me if you need to be certain that I know who you know. Check us out on facebook and twitter @beckywtghmai
I do not go too much into detail with the artists, they are all pretty new. I forgot to mention that Lil Nas X’s real name is Montero Lamar Hill, which is gorgeous. Damn. Opportunity missed. I really should stop rushing the music series. Honestly? The playlist is what I spend the most time on. It’s very good, here is a link!
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3VGPVCjiEtdbdJhE8YfkPJ?si=N-WhI79_TsmeVA9FdjMV-w

Sunday Dec 22, 2019
How Is JK Rowling A TERF If Becky Loves Her So Much?! What The Hell, God?
Sunday Dec 22, 2019
Sunday Dec 22, 2019
Life's not fair I guess. I also kinda don't think she is one. I think Maya whatsername is for sure but like--JK Rowling!?! The creator of my childhood? I can't with this, yo. I can't. I don't? I don't! Hmmm
I don't understand. Honestly the episode comes to zero conclusions. I bamble. I ramble. I bullshit and I stumble. I confuse myself often.