Fat, Trans, Queer Podcast about Queer issues with an emphasis on Music, TV, media, sex, relationships, and ranting. Nonbinary transgender man with no real plan. I make playlists, I rant, I rave, I love and I hate. I also write on my blog-- daily. Check out madaboutit.blog and tune in for podcast episodes as they are available. beckywtghmai@gmail.com @madAboutItMAI https://www.facebook.com/madAboutItMAI @madAboutItMAI https://twitter.com/madAboutItMAI Instagram that I NEVER EVER USE @madAboutItMAI https://www.instagram.com/madAboutItMAI https://www.patreon.com/madaboutitpatreon Support MAI on patreon!
Episodes
Sunday Jan 16, 2022
Fat and Trans
Sunday Jan 16, 2022
Sunday Jan 16, 2022
I update, I chat, I rant-- I get into my experiences being both fat and trans. There are an incredible amount of parallels between being fat and being trans, so I just kind of speak my mind. I also read a few poems later in the episode.
How tf do you make music for this...? I considered making a whole tuba track for it but it would've been entirely too much improvising for an hour and twenty minutes on tuba. Maybe some other time. That will be for live shows IMO.
Poems referenced:
https://madaboutit.blog/dumbo/
https://madaboutit.blog/fatphobia-climate-carbon/
https://madaboutit.blog/too-fat-not-fat-enough/
https://madaboutit.blog/fear-of-hips/
https://madaboutit.blog/queer-culture-as-a-forgiveness-pass/
https://madaboutit.blog/fat-shaming-fetish-motivation-to-diet/
https://madaboutit.blog/echo-chamberlings-trans-redditors-we-speak-for-they-them/
https://madaboutit.blog/nicokado-avocado-and-his-audience-agree-on-one-thing-internalized-fatphobia-self-proclaimed-fat-meme/
https://madaboutit.blog/at-the-intersection-of-fat-and-trans-is-a-rock-and-a-hard-place/
https://madaboutit.blog/people-are-super-triggered-by-body-positivity-neutrality/
https://madaboutit.blog/not-a-visible-achievement/
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Thursday May 20, 2021
Non-binary Transsexual/Ideological Hematoma
Thursday May 20, 2021
Thursday May 20, 2021
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Just ranting honestly
I have other episodes planned, I announce them
I don't have anything scripted for this episode it's just
Completely off the handle.
I am sorry I haven't been making as many episodes, I've been
More than a bit preoccupied, so keep that in mind
If you want to cancel me-- it's okay--
I have plans anyway.
https://www.netflix.com/title/80168079
That's the documentary on the sochi olympics that mentions testosterone therapy
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Saturday Apr 10, 2021
Trans Bills, Trans Kids, and the Consequences
Saturday Apr 10, 2021
Saturday Apr 10, 2021
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School House Mock? Too much? Not enough?
These bills are killing trans kids and no one seems to think about it that way.
Protect the children? Whose children? Where? What? When? Why? How?
How about let's stop selling and killing kids at the border first.
Republicans seem to focus on clickbait topics and turn them into policy, which is what they're always blaming us for. Meanwhile back at the ranch, real trans people are really suffering.
Trust trans kids. Believe trans kids. Stop doubting, stop questioning, stop harassing trans youth.
We can't protect them from everything, but these bills need to go. If any of this shit sticks on the fan, it will blow into other areas. The transphobia will snowball.
Wednesday Feb 03, 2021
Intersectionality
Wednesday Feb 03, 2021
Wednesday Feb 03, 2021
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Black history month is here, so let's talk some intersectionality.
Feminist-- Why I identify as one
Feminism is the root of most progress
Misogyny is a driving force behind discrimination of women and LGBTQAI folks
Who came up with intersectional feminism?
Kimberlé Crenshaw, a black American law professor coined the term in 1989. She's still active and working as a lawyer and civil rights advocate.
Why do we still have problems if this has been around since then...? Exactly, my friend. Exactly.
Nothing is perfect. Certainly not social movements, and definitely not this fucking podcast. I dig into some of the problems with how people use intersectionality, as well as how our government ignores it. White feminism does little to help POC thrive.
Ally is a verb, folks. Do it-- don't identify as a verb. You can't identify as an ally, same way you can't identify as a fuck.
Although it is tempting...
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
Non-Binary Blues
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
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I've beyond had it.
If I hear one more person say they want to
"Look more Non-binary"
I'm gonna flip my lid
I've already flipped my lid ten times just this week--
There is tightness in my chest.
AIN'T NOBODY LOOK MORE OR LESS NON-BINARY THAN ANYBODY ELSE
HOW TF YOU SUPPOSED TO LOOK NB
WHY ARE YOU PUTTING SO MUCH PRESSURE ON EVERYBODY
Also some of us don't want to conform
To your ideas of gender, so
What happens to us and them!?!?
What about looking like a man makes you
Less non-binary than looking like a woman?
Vice versa?!?!?
I've been under the impression this whole time, that we are supposed to be
Fighting gender norms--Not gatekeeping them.
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Becky Asks Hard Questions-- Gets Nonsense for Answers. Takes a Whack Himself!
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
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I have had various tough questions since starting my transition.
-Whats the difference between being non-binary and being trans?
-Is microdosing hormones a thing?
-Where are the de-transitioners, why did they stop, and what happened when they did?
Some of them have been "answered"
Most of them haven't. I had to answer most of my own questions, which is just how life goes.
Predictably, people hate curiosity. Also, people love trends!
Microdosing everything is a trend nowadays. I go into briefly what I've been told about microdosing HRT from my endocrinologist, but mostly ya'll-- what is your plan? What's your goal? I would love to be able to control the effects of my hormones... but that's not really how they work?
I'm sure I'll lose a bunch of followers for being anti-microdosing. I've weighed this possibility, and come to terms with it. I don't think I could sleep at night advocating for something that I don't think is healthy.
Thursday Aug 20, 2020
Becky Sucks at Being Trans, Excels at Hating Himself
Thursday Aug 20, 2020
Thursday Aug 20, 2020
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The poems are really paying off--what a title! All aboard the struggle bus, party edition.
Brief life updates, lots of crying. Best ignored, perhaps.
Worst trans person ever! Cancel Becky.
I will be making episodes on male sexuality, piss play, herpes, meth in the community, and more music--all after I'm finished with school in the fall. So--maybe never.
Lmao that's a nice way of teasing you, I know.
I've lost it! Tah tah
Thursday May 21, 2020
Anal
Thursday May 21, 2020
Thursday May 21, 2020
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Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
Sherry Pie Is The Best and The Worst of Season 12 Ru Paul's Drag Race and Becky Is Torn
Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
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Whoa there Joey Gugliemelli... whoa. Controversy! Drama! HBO special series Bulk!!!! Maybe a bit too good of a drag queen...? You give love a bad name, Joey! Becky is reeling, in more than one way. Only Ru Paul gets under my skin this much, I swear to hell.
I love love loved improvising my own version of talking heads naive melody. fitting.
Also evil woman!!
I missed making the podcast! more to come during the pandemic, no worries!
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
The L Word and Generation Q Review
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
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Hey Everybody! I love the L Word SOOOOO MUCH. The original series is so important to baby Becky. Generation Q is getting me really excited and I really hope they deliver more serious drama for many more seasons!!!
Where the hell is Max? More importantly, where the hell is Max's baby!?!?!
Why is Bette a cheater, and Tina isn't?!
Is Jenny really dead!?!? Was she murdered ? Was it suicide?
I think Nikki did it TBH she was so weird
My thoughts on the theme song are in the episode...
My version of the theme song is in the episode...
LMFAO there is no theme song to Generation Q because they got burned so bad they stopped having a theme song entirely.