Fat, Trans, Queer Podcast about Queer issues with an emphasis on Music, TV, media, sex, relationships, and ranting. Nonbinary transgender man with no real plan. I make playlists, I rant, I rave, I love and I hate. I also write on my blog-- daily. Check out madaboutit.blog and tune in for podcast episodes as they are available. beckywtghmai@gmail.com @madAboutItMAI https://www.facebook.com/madAboutItMAI @madAboutItMAI https://twitter.com/madAboutItMAI Instagram that I NEVER EVER USE @madAboutItMAI https://www.instagram.com/madAboutItMAI https://www.patreon.com/madaboutitpatreon Support MAI on patreon!
Episodes
Sunday Jan 16, 2022
Fat and Trans
Sunday Jan 16, 2022
Sunday Jan 16, 2022
I update, I chat, I rant-- I get into my experiences being both fat and trans. There are an incredible amount of parallels between being fat and being trans, so I just kind of speak my mind. I also read a few poems later in the episode.
How tf do you make music for this...? I considered making a whole tuba track for it but it would've been entirely too much improvising for an hour and twenty minutes on tuba. Maybe some other time. That will be for live shows IMO.
Poems referenced:
https://madaboutit.blog/dumbo/
https://madaboutit.blog/fatphobia-climate-carbon/
https://madaboutit.blog/too-fat-not-fat-enough/
https://madaboutit.blog/fear-of-hips/
https://madaboutit.blog/queer-culture-as-a-forgiveness-pass/
https://madaboutit.blog/fat-shaming-fetish-motivation-to-diet/
https://madaboutit.blog/echo-chamberlings-trans-redditors-we-speak-for-they-them/
https://madaboutit.blog/nicokado-avocado-and-his-audience-agree-on-one-thing-internalized-fatphobia-self-proclaimed-fat-meme/
https://madaboutit.blog/at-the-intersection-of-fat-and-trans-is-a-rock-and-a-hard-place/
https://madaboutit.blog/people-are-super-triggered-by-body-positivity-neutrality/
https://madaboutit.blog/not-a-visible-achievement/
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Thursday May 20, 2021
Non-binary Transsexual/Ideological Hematoma
Thursday May 20, 2021
Thursday May 20, 2021
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Just ranting honestly
I have other episodes planned, I announce them
I don't have anything scripted for this episode it's just
Completely off the handle.
I am sorry I haven't been making as many episodes, I've been
More than a bit preoccupied, so keep that in mind
If you want to cancel me-- it's okay--
I have plans anyway.
https://www.netflix.com/title/80168079
That's the documentary on the sochi olympics that mentions testosterone therapy
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Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
Non-Binary Blues
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
Wednesday Sep 09, 2020
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I've beyond had it.
If I hear one more person say they want to
"Look more Non-binary"
I'm gonna flip my lid
I've already flipped my lid ten times just this week--
There is tightness in my chest.
AIN'T NOBODY LOOK MORE OR LESS NON-BINARY THAN ANYBODY ELSE
HOW TF YOU SUPPOSED TO LOOK NB
WHY ARE YOU PUTTING SO MUCH PRESSURE ON EVERYBODY
Also some of us don't want to conform
To your ideas of gender, so
What happens to us and them!?!?
What about looking like a man makes you
Less non-binary than looking like a woman?
Vice versa?!?!?
I've been under the impression this whole time, that we are supposed to be
Fighting gender norms--Not gatekeeping them.
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Becky Asks Hard Questions-- Gets Nonsense for Answers. Takes a Whack Himself!
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
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I have had various tough questions since starting my transition.
-Whats the difference between being non-binary and being trans?
-Is microdosing hormones a thing?
-Where are the de-transitioners, why did they stop, and what happened when they did?
Some of them have been "answered"
Most of them haven't. I had to answer most of my own questions, which is just how life goes.
Predictably, people hate curiosity. Also, people love trends!
Microdosing everything is a trend nowadays. I go into briefly what I've been told about microdosing HRT from my endocrinologist, but mostly ya'll-- what is your plan? What's your goal? I would love to be able to control the effects of my hormones... but that's not really how they work?
I'm sure I'll lose a bunch of followers for being anti-microdosing. I've weighed this possibility, and come to terms with it. I don't think I could sleep at night advocating for something that I don't think is healthy.
Thursday May 21, 2020
Anal
Thursday May 21, 2020
Thursday May 21, 2020
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Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
Sherry Pie Is The Best and The Worst of Season 12 Ru Paul's Drag Race and Becky Is Torn
Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
Wednesday Apr 08, 2020
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Whoa there Joey Gugliemelli... whoa. Controversy! Drama! HBO special series Bulk!!!! Maybe a bit too good of a drag queen...? You give love a bad name, Joey! Becky is reeling, in more than one way. Only Ru Paul gets under my skin this much, I swear to hell.
I love love loved improvising my own version of talking heads naive melody. fitting.
Also evil woman!!
I missed making the podcast! more to come during the pandemic, no worries!
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
The L Word and Generation Q Review
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
Sunday Mar 01, 2020
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Hey Everybody! I love the L Word SOOOOO MUCH. The original series is so important to baby Becky. Generation Q is getting me really excited and I really hope they deliver more serious drama for many more seasons!!!
Where the hell is Max? More importantly, where the hell is Max's baby!?!?!
Why is Bette a cheater, and Tina isn't?!
Is Jenny really dead!?!? Was she murdered ? Was it suicide?
I think Nikki did it TBH she was so weird
My thoughts on the theme song are in the episode...
My version of the theme song is in the episode...
LMFAO there is no theme song to Generation Q because they got burned so bad they stopped having a theme song entirely.
Wednesday Nov 06, 2019
Transtrenders
Wednesday Nov 06, 2019
Wednesday Nov 06, 2019
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Becky breaks down Transtrenders and other myths and monsters. Spoiler alert--nobody is trendy. Except for like, the super trendy people I guess. There are so many stylish and trendy trans folk. But-- their gender isn't the trendy part.
Sunday Sep 01, 2019
Biphobia
Sunday Sep 01, 2019
Sunday Sep 01, 2019
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God rest ye merry gentlethems
We talk some talk. Biphobia is the real deal! I go into some brief definitions and then some random anecdotes. Featuring some Miley Cyrus rants and an acknowledgment of Hemsworthiness. There might also be a lot of screaming. This topic is very sensitive, so I had to go full “why’d you say that” with it otherwise it would be boring.
I tried to stay away from the most basic cliches, but unfortunately most things of the best things in life are cliche.
Friday Jul 26, 2019
Mad About It Reviews: Mad About It
Friday Jul 26, 2019
Friday Jul 26, 2019
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Oy there is too much to reflect on so I had to just go ahead and talk about it.
It has been over a year since I started all this mess, and I am a bit blown away by how different things are. They are also weirdly exactly the same. It has been nuts.
The regular programming will resume once I’m able to do what I gotta do. There are lots of good things on the horizon. Thank you so much for everything.
Podcasting has been a weird journey, stick around and live it with me.